Amsterdam massage when you share only a little English with the therapist

Few words are enough

A whole visit can work with about ten words. Hello. Yes. No. Slower. Softer. Firmer. Warm. Cold. Pause. Stop. If you know these ten, and she knows them too, you can say everything that matters. You do not need grammar. You do not need to make a sentence. One word, said clearly and calmly, is better than a long sentence said fast. If you want more words, look at the profiles first: each one lists the languages she speaks, and sometimes you will find one you share.

At the door

When she arrives, the first minute is simple. She says hello and her name. You say hello, and your name if you want. The balance is paid now, before the session: the second half after a deposit, or the whole price when there was none. Have the amount ready, counted, in your hand or on the table. That way no numbers need to be said at all. If you pay by card, the amount is shown on the screen, and you only need to check it. Then you can both relax, because the practical part is finished.

Her limits, said simply

Before the massage, she tells you her limits. She will use short words, and she may show with her hands. Listen, and if you are not sure, ask: again, please. She will say it again, more slowly. You can also answer with yes or no to each point, so she knows you understood. This part is important, and nobody hurries it. Her limits stay the same for the whole visit. If you are unsure later, ask again, before, not after.

Signs that need no language

Hands can say a lot. A thumb up means good, or yes. A flat hand, held up, means stop. A hand moving slowly down means slower, or softer. A hand pressing down on the bed means firmer. Pointing at the heater means the room is cold. These signs are understood in almost every country, and she will understand them too. She may use them as well. If a sign is not clear, say the word with it. Word and sign together are always clear.

An Amsterdam massage at a calm pace

When words are few, the pace should be slow. Slow is easier to follow and easier to change. If something is too fast, one word is enough. If something is too strong, one word is enough. Do not try to explain why, because the explanation is harder than the word. She will adjust, and she will look at you to check that it is better. A nod is a full answer. Sensual massage is a good format for this, because it is calm from the start; the sensual massage page describes it.

Light, warmth and music, by pointing

Many small wishes do not need words at all. Point at the lamp and then down, and the light goes lower. Point at the heater, rub your arms, and the room gets warmer. Point at your phone and ask music?, and she will say yes or no. Point at the clock if you want to know how much time is left, and she will show you with her fingers. These small things fill most of the talk in any visit, in any language. With a lamp, a heater and a clock, two people can agree on almost everything that is not the massage itself.

Silence is fine

Some guests feel they must talk, because silence feels impolite. During a massage it is not impolite. It is normal. Many visits are almost silent after the first few minutes, even when both people speak the same language well. So do not worry about finding words to fill the time. If you want to talk, talk. If you do not, close your eyes. She is used to both. A quiet visit is not a failed visit. Often it is the calmest kind.

When something is unclear, stop and ask

If you do not understand something she says, do not guess. Say sorry, again? and she will repeat it or show it. If she does not understand you, she will do the same, and you can repeat or use a sign. A phone with a translation app on the table can help for a longer question. Stopping for a moment to understand each other is always right. It is never rude, and it never spoils the visit. A guess is the thing that can go wrong.

The end of the visit

When the booked time ends, she tells you, often with one word: finished, or time. There is no rush. You can lie still for a moment. Nothing is paid at this point, because the money was settled at the door. If you would like to book the same woman again, you can say her name in the next booking message. You do not need to say anything complicated to her. Thank you is enough, in any language.

Before you book: say it in the message

If your English is limited, you can say so in the booking message. Write: my English is basic. That is not a problem, and it is useful to know. Every profile lists the languages she speaks, so you can look for one you share before you write her name. The reply then says whether she is free at your hour. The booking page shows the full message, and the page on yes, slower and stop gives the key words once more.